15 BDSM Gifts for the Kinkiest People on Your List
The holiday season is a time for giving, and what better way to express your affection than with a BDSM Christmas present that brings excitement, intimacy, and submission? If you’re into that kind of thing…
If you're looking to surprise your partner, FWB, or bondage-loving best friend with something unique, a BDSM gift could be the thing.
From custom harnesses to star-studded anal plugs, this BDSM Christmas present guide has it all. Whatever holiday you celebrate, dive in and make this festive season a (safe and) sexy one.
15 BDSM Christmas Presents You’ll Want to Unwrap Together
1. Sensory Play Kit
Explore the world of sensory play with items like feathers, ice cubes, massage oils, and blindfolds, which can all be found in a Christmas BDSM sensory play kit.
The combination of temperature play and the sense of touch can heighten anticipation and pleasure-
2. Fetish-Inspired Jewelry
There are many chic, subtle ways to incorporate kink into jewellery for the perfect BDSM gift this season.
A necklace that doubles as a restraint, nipple clamps with a cute design, or a leather bracelet with D-rings for attachment can be both functional and fashionable (and kinky AF).
3. Bondage Collar
A beautifully designed leather collar with a leash is great for those who enjoy power exchange.
It can be worn as a subtle accessory that matches your Christmas party outfit or used in a hot D/s roleplay context.
4. Luxury Bondage Set
A sleek and sophisticated bondage set could be the perfect mix of elegance and adventure.
Look for a bondage gift set that includes restraints (like festive handcuffs), a blindfold, and maybe even a flogger, paddle or personalised anal plug.
Leather or velvet options offer a luxe touch.
5. Erotic Advent Calendar
An advent calendar filled with small, exciting surprises like massage oils, chocolates, small toys, or even naughty coupons (think: "one free massage" or "morning playtime") can add a lot of fun and spice throughout the season and be a great romantic or BDSM gift for a friend or lover.
6. Whips, Paddles, and Floggers
If you’re an experienced BDSM practicioner and are looking for a more intense BDSM Christmas present, you can explore high-quality whips, paddles, or floggers.
Leather or suede options provide a luxurious feel and come in various textures and designs.
7. A Roleplay Costume
A sexy costume can be both playful and kinky, depending on the scenario.
Think of a seductive masseuse, doctor or something more fantasy-based like a dominatrix outfit.
You can get creative with these BDSM gifts, matching them to your partner's secret fantasies.
8. Kinky Board Games & Card Games
Fortunately for us kinksters, there are many adult-themed games out there, like Kinky Charades or Strip Poker, that can all be hot and fresh ways to engage with your partner.
Giving one of these as a BDSM Christmas present can add an element of fun, competition, and intimacy to your seasonal celebrations this year.
9. Bondage-Inspired Lingerie
You could give lingerie with straps, lace, or leather accents for a sensual and kinky gift for your fashion-loving partner.
A corset with lacing can add a touch of fetish style, or you could go for something more daring like a leather or latex body harness.
10. Luxury Massage Oils & Lubes
For aftercare, a high-quality massage oil or personal lubricant with a luxurious touch can be a romantic Christmas BDSM gift.
Some oils are specifically designed for temperature play, so they warm or cool the skin as they're applied, adding extra sensation.
11. BDSM-Themed Art
If you’re searching for a more sophisticated and less hardcore BDSM gift, consider finding tasteful, fetish-inspired art.
It could be a beautiful photograph, sensual painting, or teasing illustration that reflects your partner’s interests without being overly explicit.
12. Kinky Candles
Special BDSM-themed candles (often referred to as "wax play candles") burn at a lower temperature than regular candles, making them safe to drip on the skin for a sensual, intense experience.
You can choose from colorful options or playful options shaped like whips, handcuffs, or other BDSM-related symbols.
13. Impact Play Set
A beginner-friendly impact set might include a combination of paddles, floggers, and crops, allowing your partner to experiment with different pressures.
You could even look for Christmas BDSM present sets with varying levels of intensity for those who are newer to the kinky side of life.
14. BDSM Toy Box or Storage Case
If your partner already has a collection of toys, a storage case specifically designed for BDSM items is a great way to organise and safely store gear - and make your sex toys last longer!
Look for a sturdy, discrete, lockable (and cute!) box with padded compartments to keep everything secure.
15. Submission journal
A submission journal could be a hot BDSM gift for the organised kinkster in your life.
This could be a beautifully bound journal where your submissive partner can document their experiences, desires, fantasies, or favourite BDSM punishments in a safe, consensual way.
As always, when exploring BDSM, consent and communication are paramount. Discuss boundaries, desires, and safe words with your partner before engaging in any activities.
Have you always wondered what a BDSM Christmas looked like? Wonder no more. We hope this kinky gift guide surprised and inspired you.
If you’re looking to spice things up even more this year, discover our guides on having your best-ever Christmas sex, the hottest adult Christmas movies, and seasonal pick-up lines guaranteed to nab you a festive party date.
Whatever you’re celebrating this season, we hope the time is full of passion. Happy holidays!
