Plus Size Sex Toys: What Toys Are Best for Curvy Bodies?

Everyone is entitled to great sex, but sex toys, like other products, aren’t actually one size fits all. This article explains how to find the best plus-size sex toys for you and why you want to.

If you have a plus-size body, you might have noticed that some toys just don’t work for you. Why is this?

Think about how, say, a bullet vibrator is used. A person has to reach across their body to grip the small object at its base.

If they have larger breasts, hips, stomachs… essentially, a curvier body, this can be uncomfortable or impossible. While all sex toys should be inclusive, the marketplace just isn’t there yet. Pleasure is and should be accessible to everyone. And there’s no need to put your body in strange positions (unless that’s your thing).

Fortunately, however, some products are inherently or especially designed with larger bodies in mind.

These types of plus-size sex toys are either designed for larger bodies or naturally suited to the needs of curvy babes.

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The Best Types of Sex Toys for Plus-Size Women & People

Hands-free toys

Whether alone or with a partner, enjoying a toy that you don’t have to keep steady with your hand gives you a lot of freedom and ease.

You’ve got both hands available to explore your partner or yourself, there’s no danger of you not reaching your favourite spots, and you can focus on your pleasure instead of thinking about what one hand is doing.

Lay on vibrator

A lay on vibrator is a popular kind of plus-size sex toy. It’s a style of vibe, sometimes called a panty vibe, that you lay on your body - nipples, genitals, other erogenous zones - and let it do its thing.

Remote controlled toys

Remote-controlled toys are amazing for curvier bodies because you can pop these in place, and then easily control and adjust without needing to reach or change your position.

They come in various styles and shapes with an exciting array of pleasurable functions.

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Easy-reach toys: think long handles and well-placed buttons

If you’re after sex toys for plus-size women you can control with your hand, search for easy-reach design features like toys with long, curved handles or thoughtfully placed buttons.

Wand vibrators are very popular in the curvy community because they have long handles that make them easier to hold, especially if you’ve got a rounder tummy.

Wands also frequently come with various extensions and attachments to personalise your pleasure.

You can search online or ask in-store for a huge number of toys, not just wands, vibes, or dildos, with a specifically curved or extended handle.

Plus-size sex pillows

Sex pillows are a great and underused plus-size sex toy that can add hot levels to partnered sex and solo play.

Plus-size sex pillows are designed to comfortably you into positions you may not otherwise have managed, letting you explore even more sex positions and make using your favourite sex toys even easier.

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Straps

Doggie straps are amazingly useful plus-size sex toys for women and anyone of any gender.

They are named after the doggy position, but they can be used in different sex positions to hold onto your partner and comfortably keep yourself in place.

Other kinds of straps can be used in more creative or kinky ways, such as holding feet up or keeping legs spread.

You can search for straps designed for curvier bodies with a wider, more comfortable band.

Suction toys

Suction or suction cup toys are designed to attach to hard surfaces like chairs, walls, headboards, and showers.

They are popular plus-size sex toys as they allow for hands-free penetrative play and creative positions without worrying about reach or slippage.

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Find the toy that’s right for you.

Toys are incredible sex aids. They’re designed to help us better understand and enjoy our bodies and have more varied, intimate and exciting sex.

Every body is different. When it comes to choosing sex toys for plus-size women, there are lots of factors, from size and length to reach and curvature.

The plus-size sex toy that works for you and your body may not work for someone else, so it’s all about taking the time to think about what you want and not compromising your pleasure.