Interview with Empress
Interview with Empress
1) What would you call your job yourself? Landry offerer? Panty saleswoman? Business lady dealing with worn panties? Is there a term you're personally particularly fond of?
Used Panty Fetish Sales/Entertainment Provider or Panty Entrepreneur
2) For how long have you been working in this field? How did you find out about it in the first place? Tell me a little about your personal story and how you came to selling panties.
I’ve always sold my used panties ever since I was 20 years old in college I was working as bartender in the strip club, the customers would bid against each other and when it got high enough (over $100.00 of course) I’d peel them off and sell them and I have a few regulars still from then. I’ve always been kinky and a lil naughty, a bad girl, I’ve done fetish and been a Domme all my life, but used panty selling online I have been doing now for over 4 years and it is harder than in person.
3) Do you consider the job your main source of income or a sideline? What did you work as before you came to it? What other jobs and sources of income do you currently have?
I would say it is more a part of my business than a side thing, I include it into the fetishes I indulge in with my slaves online and real-time as a LS/Pro Financial Dominatrix/Humiliatrix and owner of Be Bad Entertainment which is my adult entertainment company /website with Fetish Clips, Cam, Call, Used Panty Selling and Auctions and more. Before I started doing Domination professionally I did interior design I actually do still own and run that company also. They both are serious passions of mine; I am an extremely creative person and I express that in these forms.
4) What criteria does a customer need to fulfill for you to consider him good?
Communication with me is key, be clear in what you want, expect and even in some cases need. Pay promptly, be respectful and if you enjoyed then spread the word, leave good feedback.
5) Tell me something about your average customer. What walks of life does he come from, how old is he, is he single or in a relationship? How can we imagine him?
Oh I’m sure like most of the girls; online I seem to attract all types very different from the next, from the extreme freak weirdo asking the impossible or something gross I will NOT do, any age from 18 to 80 *giggles* single and married to the kinky guy that just loves the smell of a woman’s secret places. I get them all!
6) Tell me about your weirdest experience so far selling panties.
Oh my well I’d have to say recently when I had to cancel and change my email cause the loser would send me over 50 emails a day every day for weeks, professing his undying love and asking me to marry him, where do I live , would I come to his house, CREEPY!
7) What about the people close to you, do they know about your job? If yes, what do they think of it and how did they react when they first found out? How did they actually find out about what you're doing?
Anyone that is close to me knows exactly what I do, I am an open book I don’t believe in hiding who I am and what I’m into it is my life and I only have one so I stay true to who I am and I am proud of it. They are all very supportive of anything I do as I am towards them I refuse to have closed minded judgmental people in my cypher.
8) Did you ever fall in love with a customer or even find one of them attractive? Did any of them ever fall in love with you or show interest in you as a person?
No, I have never fallen in love with a customer but yes some of them have been attractive at times but I am not looking for a love connection because I sell my used panties etc… I am in it because I love the naughty kinky feeling and the worshipping me aspect of it also of course the money too! I do find them all interesting as individuals and yes a few have fallen in love they say and a few even got to know me more as a person, friend and Domina.
9) What's the biggest misconception about selling panties? What's the worst prejudice?
Lace underwear can only be worn by women. LOL, seriously that it is easy money I put a lot of effort, time and work into everything I do but even more into the panties I sell or auction. That we are all sluts or prostitutes or something like that is the worst prejudice when in reality most of us are just good women with a naughty kinky side.
10) How important is staying anonymous to you? How serious do you take this aspect of your job?
I do not care to be anonymous at all other than my real name, as you can see from all my photos etc. I’m always showing my face. But do I want anyone to know where my home is no! That is the only reason I use my Domina title. I take it very serious I have a private life too so I take my customers privacy very serious also.
11) Imagine a good friend of yours was considering selling her worn panties, too. Would you encourage her to do so, or would you rather not see her give it a try? If so, why not? Or why would you want her to tread in your footsteps?
I would say be sure this is something you like to do as well as make money from before she just jumps in. And to get all set up properly before her first attempt to sell, such as get verified and research the best sites to advertise on or sell on. PantyDeal is one of the best, easiest, and friendliest to do it.
12) What tips would you give a lady who barely just began selling her worn panties?
Get verified first by 2 or more panty seller verification sites, advertise, be creative, communicate with your potential customers often, and be patient.
13) What do you enjoy most about selling worn panties, what makes fun to you and what has kept you doing the job until today?
The entire process really it is a turn on! I like for all my customers to be 100% thrilled when they receive any item from me, especially my pantie, that’s what turns me on. Plus I want them to return and buy more it is like my high, my rush everything down to shipping them off I stand in line at the post office and get wet feeling naughty because I’ve got used panties in my package and no one knows.
As I said I love the naughty rush it gives me knowing that someone is enjoying my sweet scent. Like being naughty and sneaky, not to mention my regulars rely on my goodies coming in the mail and again of course the money!
14) What don't you enjoy so much about the business? What are the downsides in your opinion?
Rude customers that want freebies, people that bid or buy and don’t pay, the fake girls with fake pictures that sell fake panties that turn out to be mostly a man saying their a woman, LOL, and the girls that add a clip of them masturbating or some other sexual act with their panties ruin the sales for those of us who don’t. Selling porn and panty selling two different categories!
They ruin sales for us real women selling our panties.
15) So what about your free time? What are your hobbies, what are you passionate about? What do you spend your time with when you're not online selling panties?
I love to chill with my kids, yes I am a MILF LOL they are my favorite people in this world my heart and awesome to spend all my time with but… also the spa, shopping, swimming, tanning, and crazy as it sounds I love to just set at home and watch my favorite shows on my DVR while in my bed comfy in just my panties! Oh and playing words with friends on my kindle fire! Find me; my username is ES1111 on it!!!
16) What are your goals and wishes for the future, where do you see yourself in the long run?
Retired and traveling to warm tropical places, but still giving advice to the next generation of panty sellers and buyers and of course still dominating in my personal life.
17) Is there anything you've always wanted to be asked? Any questions that really need to be asked but that I forgot so far? Yes…
A)What is my favorite type of panty to wear?
B)What is my favorite type of material for my panty to be made of?
C)What is my favorite color of panty? Top 3?
D)If someone wanted to buy you some panties where would you send them to shop?
E)Which type of panty, color, material, etc… do you sell the most of or have the most requests for?
18) And what's the answer to these very important final questions?
A) Low-rise cheekies, boyshorts are my favorite but I love all panty styles and types.
B) Silky with lace but it is nice to have some cotton comfy ones too.
C) Black, red, and pink!
D) La Perla, Victoria’s Secret, Fredericks of Hollywood, basically any fine retailer.
E) White cotton fullbacks are what are most requested but I sell all kinds styles materials types. I love all panties. So I mostly sell what I wear.
Any last words for us, anything important we didn't touch on so far?
Just some info about me…. I am a LS/PRO Financial Dominatrix/Humiliatrix, lover of selling used panties and CEO of BE Bad Entertainment an Adult Model Company and Website.