Interview with Alli
Interview with Allison
1) What would you call your job yourself? Landry offerer? Panty saleswoman? Business-lady dealing with worn panties? Is there a term you're personally particularly fond of?
Panty Dealer Extraordinaire (in training) ;)
2) For how long have you been working in this field? How did you find out about it in the first place? Tell me a little about your personal story and how you came to selling panties.
I am actually VERY VERY new to the field!! I only discovered it about 2 weeks ago and I’ve fallen in love with it! I have always been very sexual. Even though I can maintain a totally professional outward appearance, internally I am always thinking about sex – and fetishes are so intriguing and thrilling to me!! It may sound redundant, but fetishes are MY fetish!
It has been suggested to me on many occasions that I do some modeling, but I never gave it a chance. I was nervous and also very busy with my career. But, I ALWAYS wanted to show off my body – I work so hard for it ;) and feel blessed to have been born with what I have to offer in every facet of my life – not only visually… but, I figured it’s about time I give it a shot!
One of my very best friends has actually purchased panties from the gorgeous ladies on PantyDeal.com. He is the one who referred me to the site. Once I arrived and checked out what it was all about I was so excited to get started!! I instantly met some fantastic people who I hope to remain friends with for a long time!
I think that I was missing out for a long, long time!
3) Do you consider the job your main source of income or a sideline? What did you work as before you came to it? What other jobs and sources of income do you currently have?
To give you a brief back story on me – I got a college degree in Communication Design – I have worked as a web designer, graphic designer, Marketing consultant and, most recently, a Creative Director at an advertising agency. I LOVE what I do – but, I lost my job due to cut-backs about a month ago. I have been looking for a new job, and opened my mind to new types of opportunities.
Then, I discovered panty selling! It encompasses everything I love and came at a very good time since I just lost my source of income.
Panty selling is my #1 and only source of income right now!! I am hoping that, as time progresses, I will learn more from these lovely ladies who have already been so supportive and helpful, and I will become very successful!
I want to take it to the next level!
4) What criteria does a customer need to fulfill for you to consider him good?
First and foremost, he should be seriously interested in buying some of my panties!! I appreciate the compliments, trust me!! I truly do J I just prefer when a man goes a little further than just “kicking the tires” and he actually wants to own a pair of my panties. It’s so flattering and sexy. Also, he needs to be friendly, open-minded, and he needs to be respectful. Once we’ve shared a friendly greeting and he tells me a bit about what he likes/is looking for, I really enjoy hearing a little back-story on how he came to discover his fetish and what it does for him. His favorite aspects of it, etc… I am open to EVERYTHING! I love fetishes of all types and I never, ever judge! I like a guy who is trusting of that and willing to teach me a bit more about what it is he loves. But… again, it does come down to the panties!
5) Tell me something about your average customer. What walks of life does he come from, how old is he, is he single or in a relationship? How can we imagine him?
So far they seem to be about my age – mid-late 20s – fresh out of a relationship or very secretive about their status. That’s okay with me ;) I love secrets. For some reason, I seem to attract shy guys ;) I am totally the opposite, so it’s fun for me because I enjoy the challenge of carefully pulling them out of their shell until they’re sharing all of their dirty little secrets with me (which I ALWAYS keep just between us!! I am very, very discreet!)
6) Tell me about your weirdest experience so far selling panties.
I haven’t really had any experiences so far that I would consider to be too “weird,” but, I am very open-minded. So, something that one woman might consider “weird,” I would not. I would just consider it a learning experience!
7) What about the people close to you, do they know about your job? If yes, what do they think of it and how did they react when they first found out? How did they actually find out about what you're doing?
Yes! Actually, several close friends know about it!! They think it’s hot! The ladies want to do it and the men want to see my pics ;) They found out because I told them. Of course, only the ones that I trust have been told! The others have no clue!
8) Did you ever fall in love with a customer or even find one of them attractive? Did any of them ever fall in love with you or show interest in you as a person?
Being very new to the scene, I haven’t had this opportunity arise as of yet – but, I would enjoy that – even if it’s never mentioned. I love having these internal desires that are secret to everyone but me and the person I am “working” with. I think it would add an element of excitement ;) I’m not looking for love, but I have definitely found many of the guys very sexy. Some, I haven’t seen yet as they wish to remain anonymous, but we’ve had such fabulous interactions that it makes me feel attracted to them.
I would be so incredibly flattered if someone fell in love with me – and would really enjoy having a crush on someone! I miss that feeling!
9) What's the biggest misconception about selling panties? What's the worst prejudice?
People seem to equate it with prostitution!! Which, to me is absurd!! They don’t see that it is just so innocent. Honestly, I don’t see any problem with prostitution either, it’s just a woman or man satisfying the sexual needs of another… there’s nothing wrong with that!! My motto in life is “as long as nobody is getting hurt…..” Panty-selling is so, so innocent – while prostitution requires a bit more gumption than I think I am capable of. While it isn’t for me, it is ideal for some people, and that doesn’t make me think any less of them!! Some of my best friends are escorts and they’re very intelligent people who have college degrees and respect themselves – they just enjoy the thrill and the satisfaction of fulfilling someone else’s desires.
I think that is the biggest misconception – people think that selling panties is “disgusting” and wonder why in the world anyone would want to buy someone else’s worn panties! I say, why question it!? If they like it, give it to them! Let them enjoy it to the fullest! There’s no reason not to. You only live once!
10) How important is staying anonymous to you? How serious do you take this aspect of your job?
It is very, very important!!!! As I mentioned several times already, I love secrets… this is just another one of them J Honestly, I feel more alive when I have secrets!! Whether it’s what I am doing (selling panties!!) or those between myself and another individual… I take privacy and secrecy very seriously!!! I never ever spill any beans – not under ANY conditions!
11) Imagine a good friend of yours was considering selling her worn panties, too. Would you encourage her to do so, or would you rather not see her give it a try? If so, why not? Or why would you want her to tread in your footsteps?
I would encourage her without a doubt! I think that every sexy lady should give it a try! Here are men out there who just love it – and every lady loves to feel sexy!! I think it’s fantastic and I would absolutely encourage her!
**I am actually hoping that I can find another lady who is willing to help me become as successful as they are! I am NEVER catty – I appreciate other women and their beauty and I don’t see it as a competition – ever! Once I become more experienced, I would be thrilled to help out a newbie like myself ;)
12) What tips would you give a lady who barely just began selling her worn panties?
I am one of those ladies!! So, I can definitely say – find another woman who is experienced and willing to help you out and guide you through the process! Let her know what to expect, what sorts of experiences I’ve had, what to do, not to do, etc… I have been surprised by some of the situations I have come across since I began – and I would warn her of this and let her know what red flags to look for…
13) What do you enjoy most about selling worn panties, what makes fun to you and what has kept you doing the job until today?
Well, I am so motivated to be successful at everything I do!! But, when it comes to selling my panties, my eagerness to please a man, and the fact that I find it so hot to picture a man enjoying my scent and imagining doing as he pleases to me… while getting off is SUCH a huge turn-on. I love how it is mutually beneficial!
14) What don't you enjoy so much about the business? What are the downsides in your opinion?
I think that the men who aren’t serious, but make many demands on me cause me to feel a bit down on the whole panty selling operation L I have had men haggle with me on prices, when I am being completely reasonable – and demanding “free samples” from me before they’ll consider purchasing. I don’t think they realize that’s not how it works!! It takes a lot of work staying sexy, taking all of these photos, uploading, cropping, resizing so they’re able to be shared successfully – or doing just as they wish in one way or another. Impatient men have been a bit of a problem for me too. It takes more than 2 minutes to take a full set of custom photos, upload them, crop, etc… So, those who are “window shopping” should do just that… Take a look!! And when you’re serious, then let me know what you would like me to do for you J I am always eager to please!! I get frustrated when I spend an entire day working with one man who is just “taste-testing” with zero intention of actually taking things farther.
15) So what about your free time? What are your hobbies, what are you passionate about? What do you spend your time with when you're not online selling panties?
This might get a little bit lengthy!!
I am an extraordinarily creative person! So, most of my hobbies relate to my passion for expressing myself creatively or enjoying other’s talents artistically. Are you really ready for this list? :P
Ok, so in my free time I enjoy (and this is just a partial list!):
Photography, Illustration, Painting, Design, Jewelry design & jewelry making (yes, FINE jewelry!! Not that silly beaded stuff! I have made many people’s engagement rings for them! Being involved in their engagement story is amazing! Love it!) I LOVE gemstones and I have a pretty vast knowledge of them. I make bridal accessories like veils – I make a pretty kick-ass modern birdcage veil! I also make cute, trendy hair accessories – many revolve around the orchid (my favorite flower!!). I also design and make custom t-shirts and throw pillows, mugs, super-cool high-end home accessories, reclaiming old crappy furniture & making it super-stylish… I can sew, and I love it! I can crochet and I usually use that ability to make silly cat toys for my kitties.
Hmm.. spending time with my kitties! Beach time!! I LOVE the beach! Especially when it involves turquoise waters and white sand – but, hey – even the “muddy” Atlantic will do!
I LOVE love, love, dancing & fitness in general. Squats are one of my favorite things ever! I love Zumba, kickboxing… and anything involving complex choreography. I’m a pretty kick-ass dancer too ;)
I also enjoy “board games” or card games to the fullest, but only those which are a little bit twisted (cards against humanity) and only when playing with people who are equally sick and twisted! I know some of this makes me sound like an old lady!! But, I promise I bring the awesome – there’s no shuffleboard going on over here ;)
I also blog, but I have to keep that a secret because it will give away my true identity ;) but, let’s just say it’s about one of my special qualities that I was lucky to be born with… you know – the hair color. Not THAT, silly ;)
Ok, I hope you made it through that!! Wow… sorry for the novel!
16) What are your goals and wishes for the future, where do you see yourself in the long run?
A highly-successful business owner!! Even if that business happens to be selling my panties!! But, whatever it is, it HAS to be super-profitable and successful! I am highly-driven! Not a lazy bone in my body and I DO NOT expect a man to take care of me! I like to take care of myself J So, I see myself wealthy… and very successful – regardless of the field! I am thinking it will always include selling my panties regardless but, I presume creativity will play a role.
17) Is there anything you've always wanted to be asked? Any questions that really need to be asked but that I forgot so far?
Hmm… How about this: “What’s your motto in life?” – Although, I think I already did answer that… I think that explains a LOT about a person through very few words.
And… in case you forgot, mine is “As long as nobody is getting hurt…”
18) And what's the answer to these very important final questions? Any last words for us, anything important we didn't touch on so far?
I think you did an awesome job at asking the right questions!! I love that you included the question regarding anything weird happening throughout this experience!!! I would love to hear some crazy stories from other ladies!
I truly enjoyed answering all of the questions you’ve provided J
Many thanks Alli for this fantastic Interview and your Time!!!
Also for those special high class Pics :)